Some things have come to my attention recently, and I think I should consider them as legitimate options. As of late I have gone through some life changes, and I feel it’s time for me to decide what direction I will take myself. I sought out advice from a wise, old woman (my mother), and she hit me with an interesting piece of information. I’m not sure why she waited until now to share this with me, but here it goes. She has always thought of me to be the one person in my entire family to actually go out and see the world before I consider settling down in life. She thinks of me as a traveler. I do indeed like to travel, however I have not previously thought of myself as a traveler. She told me that I should find out what I’m all about and what the world has to offer me before I settle into anything permanent.
So this gets me to thinking, “should I just travel, or should I actually move somewhere?” There are pros and cons to both situations. I’ve not really thought of actually moving away as something plausible for myself, but if I actually want to do it bad enough, I’m sure that I could make it happen.
Traveling would mean that I would have to save up some money, and vacation days, before I am ever able to go somewhere worthwhile. I think I would be able to save up the money to go somewhere before I am ever able to have the vacation days to take off work. That might mean that in the time I am waiting to get time off, I may “accidentally” find something else to spend my money on. Also, traveling usually consists of more than one person going somewhere. I know I could go on a vacation alone, but I would prefer to have someone with me. Convincing someone else to save up this money and go with me might be a bit of a struggle.
Moving somewhere would be amazing! Like traveling, moving is going to cost, but it would be a lot more than one vacation’s worth. Moving to a new place where I don’t know anyone would also be a little scary. I don’t doubt that I wouldn’t eventually make friends, but the time and effort put into doing so is wearing me out just thinking about it. I would also have to find a job before I could consider moving. I wouldn’t be comfortable leaving a steady job to go somewhere and possibly not find a job for months. I’m sure I could find something quickly (i.e. retail, grocery store, fast food, etc.), but that is certainly not ideal. Another issue with moving is that I wouldn’t be near any of my family. I am fairly close to my family, and not being able to see them on a regular basis would be a rough adjustment. Trips home to see them would also be pricey and few and far between.
In the next few months I will be able to start saving more money than I am able to now, so either one of these options could transpire. It is definitely not something to take lightly, but I am going to consider both. I’m sure I will have more to say about this as time goes and I think about things deeper, so until then Happy Blogging!!